How to know that a guy is excited and wants sex

It is difficult for young girls to determine the physiological manifestations during intimacy with a person. Not everyone knows how to correctly identify the signs of male arousal. They are both physiological and psychological. Knowing them, any girl will be able to understand when the guy is excited and it's time to move on to the next stage of intimacy.

Signs of arousal when kissing

Lip touching excites boys and girls. At the moment of a kiss, men betray their desire for sex with the following signs:

• Rapid breathing and heartbeat.
• Biting your partner's lips.
• Flared nostrils.
• Pupil dilation.
• Redness of the lips, cheeks.
• The man tries to cling to the girl with his whole body.
• Formation.
• Hoarse voice after a kiss.
• Before kissing a partner, he licks his lips, bites them, touches them with his fingers.
• Touches his throat after a kiss.

After the kiss, the guy looks forward to continue, excited to the limit. He will give excitement and other signs. Look at it closely as soon as your lips part. He will have a lost, clouded look, most likely the person will take a deep breath and give you a big hug. If the kiss is not filled with passion, physical and emotional stress, then the man does not have strong feelings for his partner or his head is occupied with something else.

Signs of arousal after a kiss in girls are the same as in men. But women can demonstrate it more vividly, for example, moaning or passionately stroking their partner's neck with their fingers.

During hugs

To understand that a person is excited during a kiss is easy, touch your lips, hear his breathing, feel his heartbeat. But hugs won't give you that kind of information. Although during a hug you can pay attention to the following manifestations:

• The partner wants to hug the girl to reduce the distance between the bodies. Use any excuse to do it.
• The person touches the partner's neck, face, hair, waist, shoulders, knees, hands.
• He does not immediately remove his hands from the body of his beloved, he lingers, he wants to prolong the pleasant moment.
• The man tries to meet the woman's eyes. The gaze is deep and long.
• At the moment of hugs, he puts his head on the shoulder of his beloved, buries his nose in her neck.
• Makes progressive movements: firmly pressed, then moves away.
• After a passionate touch, the skin becomes "goosebumps", shivers pass through it.
• He tugs at the hem of his clothes.
• He tries to get under the girl's blouse with his palm.
• Sweaty palms.
• Increased salivation. The man is thirsty, he drinks a lot of water.
• It tenses the muscles, keeps the back straight to look more collected, toned.
• Penile tension. This symptom is the main and most noticeable, especially if the person has tight pants or thin shorts.

Recently, scientists discovered another hormone - kisspeptin. Activates the cells of the pituitary gland, which is responsible for the production of gonadtrop (sexual behavior). Therefore, it is not recommended to exclude lip-to-lip kisses from foreplay. This stage causes a chemical reaction in the body and stimulates sexual desire.

physical signs

The physiology of men and women is such that at the moment of arousal their body tenses up, expecting intimacy with the partner. Girls become more flexible, flexible, passionately react to the touch of the partner, the nipples harden, the genitals are moistened. For men, the situation is a little different.

Physiological signs of sexual arousal in men:

1. If he is next to the desired woman, he keeps his back straight.
2. He unbuttons his shirt.
3. He adjusts the belt of his pants.
4. Touches his face.
5. Answers the interlocutor's questions slowly.
6. Spreads legs wide when sitting.
7. Standing, takes the "feet shoulder width apart" position.
8. Pelvic protrusion.
9. Gestures actively.
10. He speaks loudly and quickly.
11. He stares at the girl, trying to catch her eye.
12. He opens his arms as if imitating a hug.
13. Embarrassed.
14. He often licks his lips.
15. He opens his mouth.
16. It reduces the timbre of the voice, a slight hoarse voice may appear.
17. The face becomes kind, kind, conducive to communication.
18. Raised eyebrows.
19. Stutters in conversation.
20. Pupils dilate, eye color may change.

In addition to these manifestations, to understand that a man is excited to the limit, his sweaty palms, trembling hands and the behavior of a peacock who has puffed his tail and woos his beloved woman help. At such times, girls need to control their behavior so that flirting does not go too far if the woman does not plan to have sex. Giving a person false hope with tricks, touches and flirting is not worth it.

Psychological signs

It is very difficult for men to hide their excitement. They are given by psychological signs of excitement. Boys do certain things, gesture in a special way. It is impossible to control this process. So pay close attention to your partner. You will know that the person is excited, but hides this fact, if you notice the following manifestations:

1. One worries about one's appearance. Corrects clothes, hairstyle, looks in the mirror.
2. Does not move away from the object of attention.
3. Extends the hand touch time if the girl hands him something.
4. He is embarrassed to kiss, so he touches the girl's face and hair.
5. He showers the girl with compliments.
6. Moves to a whisper if he says something intimate.
7. He feels uncomfortable if a girl stares at him without taking her eyes off him.
8. He tries to please his partner to get what he wants.
9. When a girl reciprocates, she smiles, she experiences a spiritual uplift.

The psychological aspects of agitation must be considered individually. Each person has their own characteristics of behavior.

Signs of arousal while texting

Modern people very often start love relationships through dating sites and social networks, so correspondence becomes an integral part of communication. If the girl has not yet met the interlocutor in person and he writes several dozen SMS every day, you should think about the fact that the man wants intimacy, closeness.

You can understand that a person is excited during correspondence by the following signs:

• Frequently visits the social network to check for new messages from the object of attention.
• Uses any excuse to text a girl.
• Asks to throw a photo or send your own. The frankness of the desired image depends on the degree of closeness between the boy and the girl.
• Responds quickly to messages, is ready to help at any time of the day or night.
• Frankly admits his desire, although the phrases can be veiled. For example, "I would like to see you now", "You can't do it alone, I could help if I were nearby", "It's a pity that we live in different cities, I would definitely sign up for your swimming section and carefully review the figureyou are"
• He wants to correspond more often in the evening when he is calm and alone.

For the record! It is believed that the duration of intercourse and the hardness of the penis directly depends on the behavior and appearance of the woman during foreplay. Moans, gentle touches on the buttocks, back, body movements help to stimulate a person for quality sex.

When we talk on the phone

Signs of horny men on the phone will be as follows:

• Long conversations.
• Calls for any reason.
• Pauses in conversation.
• Ambiguous phrases and questions with sexual undertones, so the man explores the waters.
• The voice is hoarse, the man tries to speak quietly, to get rid of harsh words.
• The boy is confused in his thoughts, answers out of place.
• In an excited person, the reaction to external stimuli slows down. That's why he speaks slowly on the phone.
• The man breathes deeply, sighs often.
• Looking for an appointment as soon as possible.
• He constantly repeats that he likes the interlocutor.
• He offers her different options for a meeting, agrees to any terms of the meeting.
• Inflames the girl's feelings by describing his virtues.

It is impossible to excite and annoy a man through correspondence, phone calls for too long. Set the line yourself, taking into account the male character, his temperament. Otherwise, he will cool down and lose interest.

Advice for girls

Pay attention to the advice of sexologists on how to use knowledge about the physiological and psychological signs of male arousal:

1. Heart palpitations, shortness of breath and wide eyes are uncontrollable signs of arousal in boys, so they are the main ones. Read this information first.
2. Verbal symptoms of a burning desire for sex include the timbre of the voice, its tempo and the characteristics of the conversation. To notice them, you need to communicate with a man not through correspondence, but in reality.
3. Another way to know that a man wants sex is to observe his behavior during the meeting. Wanting to win the female, he will show himself from the best side, keep his legs wide, perform uncontrolled reflex actions. But if a girl starts watching his every step, she will be embarrassed, so watch your partner gradually, imperceptibly.

And one more important tip: if you find out that the person is very excited, wants to see you in his bed, decide how your communication will continue. An erection without discharge is harmful to the male half. If a girl flirts and hints at sex, but constantly abandons her plans, playing with her partner's feelings, then this will affect the boy's health. It is better to stop communicating or directly state that you are not yet ready for sex than to entertain a man with false hopes for a long time.